Gay Dating in St. Paul 🏳️‍🌈

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First Date Ideas in St. Paul

Good news: the pressure of planning is half the fun. Some ideas that work well in St. Paul:

• Try a slow coffee date at a local roastery
• Try a comedy night where you find out fast if the humor lines up
• Try browsing the farmers market on a Saturday morning
• Try a cooking class where the teamwork tells you everything
• Try sharing appetizers at a neighborhood bistro

Whatever you pick, the goal is the same: an easy conversation with someone you already know has a few things in common with you.

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